actually, you can.

Actually you can. Actually, you can get it together. Actually, you can be financially independent. Actually, you can be happily divorced. Actually, you can have a an amazing relationship with your ex. Actually, you can love your job. Actually, you can ask for help. Actually, you can change how you dress. Actually, you can be more kind. Actually, you can open your heart. Actually, you can love your body and get in shape. Actually, you can enjoy dating. Actually, you can take a risk. Actually, you can do those things that scare you. Actually, you can give up habits that are no good for you. Actually, you can run half a marathon. Actually, you can love being a Mum. Actually, you can buy your own house. Actually, you can want more. Actually, you can discover new things. Actually, you can start fresh today, tomorrow and the next day. Actually you can….

Fill in the blanks. Because babe, actually you can do whatever it is thats on your heart. You’ve just got to believe enough in yourself to take the first step and trust that the universe has your back. Trust.

I used to think it was the fear of failing that was stopping me from taking steps towards what I wanted. But it wasn’t fear, it was not feeling worthy of great things. It was not feeling worthy of even wishing for great things. I’m here to tell you that no matter what has happened before this moment, you are deserving of a life that feels amazing to you. If you aren’t where you want to be. Don’t let these limiting beliefs stop you from a experiencing all life has available to you. Please don’t settle. Don’t settle for a mediocre life when you have dreams inside you. Your dreams, desires, hopes and the things that light you up have been gifted to you for a reason. They are yours, they are personal. And if they have been placed on your heart then you’ve got to trust and believe that actually, it’s all possible.

Keep going! Remind yourself “actually, I can…”

Jen x